pengajaran piala FA

kehidupan mesti diteruskan,
kemaskan strategi,
jangan cepat patah semangat,
kuatkan azam.

mungkin banyak hikmahnya.

huh, fanatik betul ore kelate nie.

take back your heart

Assalamualaikum.I wanna share this article, hope we can get as much as possible lessons from this article and give more courages for me to CHANGE.Taken from suhaib webb dot com.

No one likes to fall. And few people would ever choose to drown. But in struggling through the ocean of this life, sometimes it’s so hard not to let the world in. Sometimes the ocean does enter us. The dunya does seep into our hearts.

And like the water that breaks the boat, when dunya enters, it shatters our heart.  It shatters the boat. Recently, I was reminded of what a broken boat looks like, of what happens when you let everything in. I was reminded because I saw someone, just like me, fall in love too much with this life and seek to be filled by the creation. So the ocean of dunya shattered her boat, as it had shattered mine, and she fell out into the water.  But she stayed down too long, and didn’t know how to come back up or what to hold on to.

So she drowned.

If you allow dunya to own your heart, like the ocean that owns the boat, it will take over. You will sink down to the depths of the sea. You will touch the ocean floor. And you will feel as though you were at your lowest point. Entrapped by your sins and the love of this life, you will feel broken. Surrounded by darkness. That’s the amazing thing about the floor of the ocean. No light reaches it.

But, this dark place is not the end. Remember that the darkness of night precedes the dawn. And as long as your heart still beats, this is not the death of it. You don’t have to die here. Sometimes, the ocean floor is only a stop on the journey. And it is when you are at this lowest point, that you are faced with a choice. You can stay there at the bottom, until you drown. Or you can gather pearls and rise back up—stronger from the swim, and richer from the jewels.

is this the deep, dark ocean?

If you seek Him, God can raise you up, and replace the darkness of the ocean, with the light of His sun. He can transform what was once your greatest weakness into your greatest strength, and a means of growth, purification and redemption. Know that transformation sometimes begins with a fall. So never curse the fall. The ground is where humility lives. Take it. Learn it. Breathe it in. And then come back stronger, humbler and more aware of your need for Him. Come back having seen your own nothingness and His greatness. Know that if you have seen that Reality, you have seen much. For the one who is truly deceived is the one who sees his own self—but not Him.  Deprived is the one who has never witnessed his own desperate need for God.  Reliant on his own means, he forgets that the means, his own soul, and everything else in existence are His creation.

Seek God to bring you back up, for when He does, He will rebuild your ship. The heart that you thought was forever damaged will be mended. What was shattered will be whole again. Know that only He can do this. Seek Him.

And when He saves you, beg forgiveness for the fall, feel remorse over it—but not despair.  As Ibn ul Qayyim (RA) has said: “Satan rejoiced when Adam (peace be upon him) came out of Paradise, but he did not know that when a diver sinks into the sea, he collects pearls and then rises again.”

There is a powerful and amazing thing about tawbah (repentance) and turning back to Allah (swt). We are told that it is apolish for the heart. What’s amazing about a polish is that it doesn’t just clean. It makes the object that is polished even shiner than it was before it got dirty. If you come back to God, seek His forgiveness, and refocus your life and heart on Him, you have the potential to be even richer than if you’d never fallen at all. Sometimes falling and coming back up gives you wisdom and humility that you may never otherwise have had. Ibn ul Qayyim (RA) writes:

One of the Salaf [Pious Predecessors] said: “Indeed a servant commits a sin by which he enters Paradise; and another does a good deed by which he enters the Fire.” It was asked: How is that? So he replied: “The one who committed the sin, constantly thinks about it; which causes him to fear it, regret it, weep over it and feel ashamed in front of his Lord—the Most High—due to it. He stands before Allah, broken-hearted and with his head lowered in humility. So this sin is more beneficial to him than doing many acts of obedience, since it caused him to have humility and humbleness—which leads to the servant’s happiness and success—to the extent that this sin becomes the cause for him entering Paradise. As for the doer of good, then he does not consider this good a favor from his Lord upon him. Rather, he becomes arrogant and amazed with himself, saying: I have achieved such and such, and such and such. So this further increases him in self-adulation, pride and arrogance—such that this becomes the cause for his destruction.”

Allah (swt) reminds us in the Qur’an to never lose hope. He says: “Say, ‘O My servants who have transgressed against their souls [by sinning], despair not of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful,’” (39:53).

And so, this is a call to all those who have become enslaved by the tyranny of the self, imprisoned in the dungeon of thenafs (self) and desires.  It is a call to all those who have entered the ocean of dunya, who have sunk into its depths, and become trapped by its crushing waves. Rise up. Rise up to the air, to the Real world above the prison of the ocean. Rise up to your freedom. Rise up and come back to life. Leave the death of your soul behind you. Your heart can still live and be stronger and purer than it ever was. Does not the polish of tawbah remake the heart even more beautiful than it was? Remove the veil you have sewn with your sins. Remove the veil between you and Life, between you and Freedom, between you and Light—between you and God.  Remove the veil and rise up. Come back to yourself. Come back to where you began. Come back Home. Know that when all the other doors have shut in your face, there is One that is always open. Always. Seek it. Seek Him and He will guide you through the waves of the cruel ocean, into the mercy of the sun.

This world cannot break you—unless you give it permission. And it cannot own you unless you hand it the keys – unless you give it your heart.  And so, if you have handed those keys to dunya for a while—take them back. This isn’t the End. You don’t have to die here. Reclaim your heart and place it with its rightful owner:

God.

hati

-hati sendiri pun susah diduga-
-bersabarlah-
-if God is all you have, u have all you need-

kredit gambar:http://browse.deviantart.com/?qh=&section=&global=1&q=heart#/dnhy16

cepat

Mohaini, cepat2 habiskan master.lepas tu bolehlah nak berehat-rehat kan.Jangan mengada-ngada.

rationalisasi subsidi katanya

Gambarajah menunjukkan peningkatan harga gula. chart dia salah tahun ,may 10 2011 sepatutnya.

  harga gula naik, bak kata bapak menteri, kuranglah gula dalam makanan, x baik untuk kesihatan tau!!.

penyelarasan subsidi, kesian la kerajaan sangat terbeban.

ayat utusan merapu: kerajaan mengurangkan/ menyelaraskan subsidi

ayat selain utusan: kerajaan naikkan harga gula

selepas itu, membandingkan harga dengan negara2 sekitar.
tahukah anda, di Thailand, rakyat hanya perlu sediakan pakaian sekolah sahaja dan pergi sekolah belajar.yang lain,;yuran2 semua ditanggung kerajaan.(sumber: tukang rumah yg kat rumah sy, dia orang siam).

Naik-naik la, ayat berbunyi begini akan kedengaran"setelah mengkaji & ambil kira kesusahan rakyat, kami turunkan harga,blabla.."pastu PRU 13 pada sekian, sekian.sekian.Itulah namanya politik.

sekian.

zaman kecik2

Assalamualaikum,
ini n3 kedua untuk hari ni.


Mak saya cerita, zaman kecik saya budak yang rajin,rajin macamana?
Masa mak saya tengah masak pun, saya datang dekat mak nak suruh dia ajar mengaji Quran, rajin kan?
Lepas balik sekolah pun, terus buat kerja sekolah, baca buku,tapi itu semua zaman belum baligh lagi, hati pun bersih lagi. 


Zaman dulu, tengok tv pun cerita Usop Sontorian, Doremon, Keluangman je.Power rangers x minat.Pastu yang ilmiah sikit,Along(yang pakai maskot),ada Siti Sifir.Kelakar bila fikir balik.Ada satu lagu yang saya ingat, "anak rusa nani,...."Tak kurangnya minat lagu balada macam kump spoon, ape lagi ye x ingat. Tapi sangat jarang tengok tv, sebab rumah x de tv,nak tengok pun pergi rumah jiran. Jadi, masa banyak di buku @ main2 dengan kawan; pergi mandi sungai, main masak2, "camping", mainan kg-main guli, tenten. nusuk(menyorok). Naik basikal Semua itu zaman kanak2 masa saya di Felda Chiku 03, Gua Musang.Umur 4-11 tahun.  Zaman air tak ada, kena pergi mandi perigi hari2, mujurlah kecik lagi, mandi tak pakai baju pun tak pa. Terjumpa babi hutan  adalah perkara biasa. 


Rajin rupanya budak ni zaman kecik.Orang kata masa semangat tengah pudar, kenanglah dulu anda rupanya pernah "berjaya".Apapun sekarang saya disini, zaman itu sudah lebih 10 tahun berlalu. Moga apapun yang pernah berlaku, baik atau buruk, akan diteladani oleh saya. InsyaAllah.


Memang suka banding2, 
http://muhayniey.blogspot.com/2008_04_01_archive.html

Responsible

Take responsibility of your life,Mohaini!!

kalam Ibn-Ataillah

Kalam  Ibnu Athaillah:

JANGANLAH KERANA KELAMBATAN MASA PEMBERIAN TUHAN KEPADA KAMU, PADAHAL KAMU TELAH BERSUNGGUH-SUNGGUH BERDOA, MEMBUAT KAMU BERPUTUS ASA, SEBAB ALLAH MENJAMIN UNTUK MENERIMA SEMUA DOA,UNTUK KAMU, TIDAK MENURUT KEHENDAK KAMU, DAN PADA WAKTU YANG DITENTUKAN-NYA, TIDAK PADA WAKTU YANG KAMU TENTUKAN

reflection

Assalamualaikum,

1)Whenever i walked towards the car going back home after working, i reflected a lot. "what i have done today" and  i regret if i wasted my precious, never comeback time by doing unlawful things.Things should be settled that day, but i adjourned it. Until i need to find suitable time to prepare myself.  That's why time management is very crucial. 

2) Lately, i find myself always defeated. I should avoid tv and be friend with books, journals, and spend less time in front of tv watching KBS. 

3)It's okay if we do mistakes, but make sure the same mistakes would not happen again. For 23 years, i've been experiencing ups and down in this life. Still remember, unsatisfied SPM result made me strived to the fullest during matriculation period. And undergraduate was like "honeymoon" for me. Now, the chance is given, hope i can achieve my dream without repeating the same mistakes.

4) FIGHTING

ingat Allah

dalam sehari-hari, masa mana ingat Allah, kalau selalu dengar lagu kokse saja

tak tahu disaman

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2011/3/8/nation/8208150&sec=nation

"Only 4% of the 17.3 million outstanding traffic summonses at the end of last month have been settled a week after an extension was granted on the 50% discount offer, Deputy Home Minister Datuk Wira Abu Seman Yusop said"

macam mana nak bayar, kalau diri sendiri tak tahu dia ada saman.tiba2 polis datang rumah, bawak gari.siap kena check dulu dalam web/ sms.

risau dan kawal diri

"Aah, rasa semalam baru aja hari jumaat, nie dah datang hari jumaat balik", A mengeluh.Lalu rutin biasanya dilakukan.

Tiada apa yang baru, seperti biasa, rasa tak perlu buat perubahan, sebab tahu dah, kalau berubah pun kejap je.

Lalu dari minggu ke minggu seringkali mengeluh dan menyesal tak berusaha betul2. Menyesal tak belajar betul2, kadang2 banyak masa dihabiskan dengan berfikir,kenapa dan kenapa.

You can’t change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying about the future”

Kenapa harus difikirkan masa yang tak akan kembali? Baik fikir apa yang akan dilakukan pada masa yang Allah beri, iaitu sekarang!Fokus terhadap sekarang, perancangan yang bijak ditambah dengan usaha yang bersungguh.

Bagaimana nak usaha bersungguh2; self- control.

“Self-control is the key to self-mastery“

Mengawal diri supaya konsisten, mengawal diri supaya tidak malas, mengawal diri supaya tidak terlebih itu ini( perbuatan x elok).

KAWAL DIRI

KAWAL DIRI

KAWAL DIRI

KAWAL DIRI

Moga rahmat Allah sentiasa bersama kita.

banyaaaaaak..

Bila banyaaaaaak jurnal yang nak di baca, sampai tak tahu nak baca yang mana dulu, baca A, teringat B, baca B, teringat C.....Z...tapi sempat lagi tulis dalam blog..

dapat parking sebelah kereta idaman pun jadi lah.

memperbaharui,update.

Assalamualaikum..
Dah dekat sebulan tak tulis apa2.Tapi hari2 buka blog autumn ni.
Banyak yang terlintas di kepala, nak tulis dekat blog, tapi bila rasa guilty kalau tulis blog, tapi kerja lain x siap.Argh, kekeringan idea,..tak tahu dah nak tulis apa....ok dah.

ya Allah

emosi tak tentu hala, tiba2 rasa alone, mana nak cari motivasi, ini baru mula!!!!

hirup udara di atas bukit

berikut nama2 yang lewat........

DSB

aspuri baru dicat

aspura

apih n afrina...1 ibn haitham, alkhawarizmi.

senyum sepanjang hari

afrina senyum,oh,cair hatiku..

assalamualaikum.
hari nie saya kena senyum sepanjang hari =)=)=).sebab tarikh 2812 adalah hari lahir saya.

min ho senyum, dream team's ace neh, dululah..

http://muhayniey.blogspot.com/2009/12/2812.html

after final year project..

Assalamualaykum,


Today I processed  fat sample, 2 samples, i did'nt realized that those samples are from the same pt.But one consists of fat only(S1), another is subcutaneous one(S2),
Fuh, suddenly, got so many samples, i had go to OT for three times. But i love this hectic and super-busy day ( bit exaggerated) rather than sit down and sometimes got tempted by the mr cabel. Both of samples washed and minced  in ethanol. S1 centrifuged to remove erythrocytes and the solution below fat layer was discarded. S2 which do not contained RBC was washed in minced  in PBS. Subsequent step for both samples  was incubation in collagenase Type I + antimycotic for overnight. Other two samples which i got ~ 4 pm will be processed tomorrow and the steps after incubation with collagenase for samples i received today will be performed (count the cells,etc).
tak faham? baguslah, saya memang tak nak anda faham.

overcome fears.

Assalamualaikum readers.


I'm one of people out there who has this problem, since in childhood.Fear of trying thing that i've never had experienced in that area before, fear of meeting people that i never meet before, oh no...i should stop listing now!! I hope, I pray that  Allah will grant me "yaqinan sodiqa", the prayers that I always utter in al-ma'thurat.



Tips to overcome fears.from productivemuslim.com.

As humans we all experience fear, even some of the most successful and confident people experience fear. Fear can be a good thing because it prevents us from taking steps that can harm us, but quite often our fears are based on exaggerated assumptions. These fearful thoughts come in the ways of working towards our goals & dreams.

Some of the common fears we experience:

• Fear of failure
• Fear of being rejected
• Fear of not meeting our own expectations

When we realize that we’re being excessively fearful, how do we over come them? Here are 3 ways:

1. Have Proper Perspective

The reason for the fear is often because our perspective of the situation is skewed. Our fears are based on wrong assumptions. By correcting these assumptions we get a proper perspective on our situation.

Put your fearful thoughts in perspective by asking the following questions:

1. What is the worst that can happen if my fear came true?
2. What is more likely to happen if that fear were to be actually realised?
3. What is the best outcome possible for me, if I acted in spite of my fear?

Once you’ve answered them, discuss these questions with a close friend. Getting another point of view on the situation will help in getting a proper perspective. You’ll realize that:

• The worst possible outcome isn’t so bad, and is something you can handle.
• The best possible outcome is very rewarding.

2. Replace Fear with Curiosity

I learnt this lesson from a National Geographic ad. When you’re fearful you create a barrier of separateness between yourself and the world/other people. This perception of other becomes a threat, and you have thoughts like “What will he think of me?”, “What if it doesn’t work out?”, “What if I fail?”. These thoughts close a person from taking action.

But when you’re curious it opens you up, and brings in enthusiasm. Thoughts of fear are replaced with thoughts of curiosity.

So to be more curious, replace the negative thoughts of fear like “I’m afraid they’ll not like my idea” with “I’m curious to know what others think”. Become an interested person who’s open to new ideas & experiences.

3. Trust in Allah:

Allah says in the Qur’aan: “Those who believe, and do deeds of righteousness, and establish regular prayers and regular charity, will have their reward with their Lord: on them shall be no fear, nor shall they grieve.” [Qur'an Chater 2 Verse 277]

If you have trust in Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala, then you can overcome anything. Allah also reassures us in the Qur’aan that:

“If Allah helps you, none can overcome you: If He forsakes you, who is there, after that, that can help you? In Allah, then, let believers put their trust.” [Qur'an Chapter 3 Verse 160]

If you believe from the depths of your heart that the Creator of the universe wishes the best for you, then no matter what happens, you won’t be worried. As long as you know you’re taking the right action then no matter what the outcome is, you’ll surrender to it with peace. There’s nothing to be afraid of, because there is nothing better than being content with the knowledge that the Creator of the universe is doing what is best for you.

Once you’ve taken action in spite of the fear, take time out to celebrate! This will reinforce in your mind that having the courage to face your fears is a rewarding experience.

Be fearless – Be Muslim.

perbuatan maksiat melemahkan kekuatan hati

12/12/2010
Assalamualaikum
Diambil dari blog:http://nurjeehan.hadithuna.com/2007/03/perbuatan-maksiat-lemahkan-kekuatan-hati

gAmbar:masihkah ada cahaya dalam kegelapan malam?.All rights reserved by diesmali

MAKSIAT memiliki pengaruh bahaya dan buruk bagi hati serta fizikal manusia.

Antara pengaruh buruk serta bahaya dosa, ia akan memadamkan cahaya ilmu yang dikurniakan Allah dalam hati. Imam Malik pernah mengagumi kecerdasan Imam Syafie yang masih muda, memiliki ketajaman otak dan kesempurnaan pemahaman.

Imam Malik berkata: Aku melihat Allah meletak cahaya dalam hatimu, kerana itu jangan kamu padamkan dengan kegelapan maksiat.

Sementara itu, Imam Syafie pernah menceritakan pengalaman peribadinya dalam bait syair; Saya mengadu pada guru Waqi mengenai mutu hafalanku yang buruk, maka ia mengarahkan supaya aku meninggalkan maksiat. Ia berkata, Ketahuilah ilmu adalah kemuliaan dan kemuliaan Allah tidak diberikan kepada ahli maksiat

Lagi kesan-kesan buruk dari perbuatan maksiat adalah seperti berikut:

• Rezeki tidak lancar

Dalam Musnad Ahmad, Rasulullah SAW bersabda: Sesungguhnya seorang hamba diharamkan daripada rezeki kerana maksiat yang ia lakukan.

Seperti ketakwaan kepada Allah mendatangkan rezeki, sebaliknya maksiat akan mendatangkan kekafiran.

• Keterasingan antara Allah

Seorang yang melakukan maksiat akan menemukan perasaan terasing antara dirinya dan Allah dalam hatinya. Keterasingan ini tidak boleh diganti dan dinilai dengan kenikmatan apa pun. Andainya semua kelazatan di dunia disatukan, maka tetap tidak boleh mengubati perasaan keterasingan itu. Perasaan itu hanya ada pada hati yang hidup, sementara hati mati tidak mempunyai perasaan itu.

Ada seorang lelaki mengadu perasaan keterasingan pada dirinya kepada ahli makrifat lalu dijawab:Jika kamu menemukan keterasingan dalam dirinya kerana berbuat dosa, segeralah tinggalkan dosa itu dan temui ketenteraman hati dalam berbuat taat. Ketahuilah, tidak ada hati yang rasakan keterasingan kecuali kerana dosa.

• Keterasingan antara manusia

Perasaan terasing bukan hanya terjadi dengan Allah tetapi juga manusia terutama dengan mereka yang melakukan kebaikan.

• Allah akan menyulitkan urusannya

Orang yang melakukan maksiat akan selalu menemui jalan buntu pada setiap urusannya. Orang yang bertakwa kepada Allah akan menemui kemudahan pada urusannya sebaliknya mereka yang jauh daripada takwa disulitkan urusannya.

• Kegelapan dalam hati

Kegelapan itu nyata dalam hatinya seperti melihat dan berasakan gelapnya malam. Ini kerana ketaatan adalah cahaya sementara maksiat adalah kegelapan. Semakin kuat kegelapan dalam hati maka seseorang itu terus dalam kebingungan. Akibatnya ia terjatuh dalam kesesatan dan hal yang menghancurkan tanpa disedari.

• Maksiat melemahkan kekuatan hati

Maksiat melemahkan hati dan kelemahan fizikal disebabkan lemahnya hati. Semakin kuat hatinya, semakin kuat fizikalnya. Ahli maksiat, meskipun fizikalnya kuat tetapi apabila diperlukan dan dalam keadaan terdesak, kekuatan fizikal mereka tidak berdaya.

Renungkan bagaimana kekuatan fizikal kaum Rom dan Parsi yang mengkhianati mereka ketika memerlukannya hingga dengan mudah orang beriman menakluki kekuatan fizikal dan hati mereka.

• Malas mengerjakan ibadat

Orang yang melakukan maksiat akan malas melaksanakan amal ibadat. Sedangkan setiap bentuk ketaatan kepada Allah nilainya melebihi dunia dan segala isinya.

• Terbiasa berbuat dosa

Maksiat melunturkan persepsi buruk mengenai dosa dalam hati seseorang. Ertinya, dia tidak akan berasa bahawa dosa yang dilakukan adalah perbuatan buruk. Akibatnya, dosa menjadi sebahagian daripada kebiasaan. Keadaan ini membahayakan diri sendiri.

Walaupun dilihat dan dicerca, dia tidak rasakan dirinya terhina. Perasaan seperti itu adalah kesenangan dan kenikmatan daripada pelaku maksiat. Bahkan, ada yang bangga menceritakan maksiat yang dilakukan.

Rasulullah SAW bersabda: Semua umatku akan dimaafkan oleh Allah kecuali muhajirun (yang terang-terangan berbuat maksiat. Termasuk mujaharah adalah ketika Allah menutupi seseorang berbuat maksiat, tapi pagi harinya ia membuka aibnya sendiri. Ia mengatakan, “Hai teman, semalam aku melakukan ini dan itu.Dia merobek kehormatannya sendiri ketika Allah menutupnya.(Hadis riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)